More Pets = More Planning

The more animals you have in your home, the more management and protocols you need to have in place. These two things are non-negotiable when it comes to keeping everyone safe—because when arousal levels get high, so does the risk for conflict, injury, or full-on meltdown moments.

🛠️ What is Management?

Management means changing the environment to prevent unwanted behaviours before they happen.

• Baby gates

• Crates

• Closed doors

• Barriers

• Long-lasting enrichment

These are all helpful tools I use to create calmer, safer transitions.

For example, when I’m away, Hank usually sleeps downstairs on my bed, and Lucy either curls up on the couch or goes into her crate. When I get home, I use the baby gates at the top and bottom of the stairs to keep them downstairs until I get sorted. Just like that, half the crew is already managed.

And Hazel and Ella?

They both need to carry something when someone comes in the door. A slipper, a toy, a chew—anything will do. That parading ritual helps them regulate big feelings. So before I leave, I make sure those items are easy to grab by the door.

📋 What Are Protocols?

Protocols are the routines and cues that signal to my dogs what’s going to happen next, and what they should do about it. They're consistent. They're clear.

Dogs are pattern recognizers. They link sights, sounds, and movements to predictable outcomes. So the sequence might look like this:

• Car pulls in → potential someone arriving

• Garage door opens → definitely me

• Car door shuts → any second now

• Footsteps on the stairs → showtime

They know this routine.

And I know them.

Hazel wants to go outside. She’s got a huge reinforcement history out there with balls, discs, and general fun. But it’s also her way to self-regulate. She exits the scene and lowers her own stress.

Lucy needs all the pets—bum scratches, head rubs, the whole deal. And she doesn’t want anyone else cutting in line. Reassurance after being alone for so long.

Ella does a quick lap around me, showing off the item of the day (probably my slipper). Then she heads to a dog bed and waits to see what comes next.

And Hank? He’s the best boy. He just reads the room and rolls with it.

🧠 Why It Matters

If I skip these steps or the sequence of events wrong, it throws everything else off. The dogs no longer have the ability to predict outcomes accurately. And like humans, when we can’t predict what’s going to happen next, we can get pretty anxious, frustrated, worried, excited or uneasy. 

Even something small—like a car pulling in without the garage door opening—signals something different: probably a delivery. That prediction is based on experience. And when their expectations get disrupted too often, it creates stress.

Here’s the bigger issue: stress sticks around.

Cortisol, often called the “stress hormone,” is released when dogs perceive a threat. It’s part of the fight-or-flight response. It’s a great tool for survival and safety —but it lingers. And when cortisol hangs around too long, it affects digestion, immune function, and the body’s ability to heal itself. If stress becomes a daily experience, even good stress, it can lead to long-term behavioural and health issues.

That’s why management and protocols aren’t just training tools. They’re wellness strategies. They help dogs feel safe, seen, and supported—especially in multi-dog homes where excitement can turn to chaos fast.

❤️ The Takeaway

Clear cues. Predictable routines. Intentional environment set ups.

These aren’t just for us. They’re how we show up for our dogs—especially when we live with more than one. More pets means more moving parts... but it also means more opportunities to communicate with care and help everyone feel at ease.

Debunking Dominance:Your Dog Isn’t Trying to Take Over

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Dominance. It’s one of the most persistent myths in dog training. Trainers, owners, and even casual observers throw the word around as if it explains everything.

But here’s the truth: it doesn’t.

The idea that dogs misbehave because they’re trying to dominate us isn’t just outdated—it was never correct to begin with. In this post, we’re unpacking the dominance myth, why it’s harmful, and what’s actually driving your dog’s behaviour.

Where Did the Dominance Myth Come From?

The dominance theory in dog training stems from flawed wolf research conducted in the 1940s. Early studies on captive wolves concluded that their social structure was based on a rigid hierarchy, with an “alpha” leading the pack.

But modern research has debunked this. Wild wolf packs don’t operate this way, and even if they did, dogs are not wolves—no more than we are chimpanzees.

Yet, because humans naturally organize themselves in hierarchies, the idea of dominance in dogs stuck. Worse, it became a convenient excuse for using force and intimidation in training.

Dominance is a Label, Not a Solution

When people think a dog is “dominant,” they assume they have to make the dog submit somehow. This belief creates unnecessary conflict, leading to:

🚫 Escalating punishments
🚫 Reliance on intimidation
🚫 Missing the bigger picture

Instead of focusing on why a behaviour is happening, people get caught in a power struggle. But true training isn’t about control—it’s about understanding and communication.

What Should You Do Instead?

A far more effective approach is to drop the labels and focus on behaviour change:

✔ Describe the behaviour. What is your dog actually doing?
✔ Decide what you want them to do instead.
✔ Create a plan to reinforce that behaviour.

Dogs don’t act out because they’re trying to take over your household. They behave in ways that benefit them and keep them safe.

What About Dog-to-Dog “Dominance”?

A lot of people assume that when one dog “submits” to another, it means the other dog is dominant. But that’s not how it works.

Dogs don’t live in a constant battle for rank. Instead, they navigate social situations through:

🐶 Body language
🐶 Space and movement
🐶 Calming signals

What Are Calming Signals?

Calming signals are subtle behaviours dogs use to diffuse tension and communicate peaceful intent. These can include:

✔ Lip licking
✔ Turning the head away
✔ Yawning
✔ Softening their eyes
✔ Slow movements

When a dog steps aside, lowers their head, or avoids direct eye contact, they aren’t submitting to a higher-ranked dog. If a resource like a chew is involved, one dog may defer to the other.

This isn’t about dominance—it’s a choice to prevent conflict.

The reality? Dogs that use force or intimidation aren’t dominant—they’re likely insecure, unsure, or frustrated. Confident dogs don’t need to “prove” anything.

Punishment Feels Good—But It’s Not Good Training

Punishment reinforces the punisher. When a dog acts out, many people don’t ask why—they just want it to stop. And when it does, they feel like they’ve “won.”

But here’s the problem: the behaviour isn’t gone. The dog still has the same fear, frustration, or unmet need—now, they just suppress it. And suppression isn’t training.

Instead of punishing, ask yourself:

✔ Why is this happening?
✔ How can I help my dog feel safe?
✔ What behaviour can I reinforce instead?

Dogs don’t misbehave because they’re trying to challenge us. They do what works for them, based on past experiences, reinforcement, and emotional state.

A Real-Life Example: Is It Dominance or Discomfort?

Let’s say a 10-year-old dog with hip dysplasia growls when someone sits next to them on the couch.

A dominance-based trainer might say the dog is “claiming” the couch.

But let’s rethink that:

🔹 The dog is comfortable where they are.
🔹 It physically hurts to move.
🔹 They don’t want to be touched because it might cause pain.

So they growl. If we listen instead of punishing, we can take action:

✔ Get a vet check.
✔ Adjust their diet, exercise, and pain management.
✔ Meet their needs so they don’t have to growl.

And guess what? Once the dog feels better, they might not even want to be on the couch anymore!

The key takeaway? Behaviour is information. When we address the root cause, the behaviour often resolves itself.

The Science is Clear—Dominance Training is Harmful

The American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior (AVSAB) and many other experts actively discourage dominance-based training.

They recommend that veterinarians only refer clients to trainers who use:

✔ Positive reinforcement
✔ Operant conditioning
✔ Counterconditioning

At the end of the day, our job isn’t to dominate our dogs. It’s to guide them, support them, and create an environment where they feel safe enough to succeed.

Final Thoughts: What Now?

If you’ve been told that your dog is being dominant, take a step back. Ask yourself:

❓ Is my dog feeling safe, comfortable, and understood?
❓ What is actually reinforcing this behaviour?
❓ How can I set them up for success?

Training isn’t about control—it’s about connection. The more we understand why dogs behave the way they do, the better we can support them.

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What I love about training

I’ve had brutal cold for the last few days and life has sucked at Casa del Bulldogge. While some people’s dogs seem to be sympathetic to their guardian’s suffering, Hank is not on of those dogs.

Boredom can take on many forms, and in Hank’s case, Penelope has been far more interesting than she’s ever been. Normally he doesn’t give her the time of day even when she’s launching assaults from the table as he passes by. I found him following her around the basement no doubt assessing if she’s worth trying to play with. Or so I assume.

Last night Hank did something else that was out of character for him. He picked up Hazel's ChuckIt! ball and brought it over to me as I lay wheezing on the couch. Now you’re probably thinking “and this is interesting why exactly?” Allow me to explain.

Recently Hank and I have been working on retrieving. He’s gotten pretty good at fetch to hand and picking up different objects and dropping them into a box. We’ve built a solid reinforcement history at this point, working upstairs in the dog room.

Having tried his usual approach of wiggling his big bum and barking to get me off my ass, he decided to put his new skills to use by bringing me that ball. That in and of itself is very cool but what’s really impressive about it is that he was able to apply the behaviour in a different context. Outside of a training session, without being prompted and without the usual context cues of boxes and toys lying on the floor.

That’s what dog training is all about for me. It’s about teaching our dogs skills, however silly or pointless they may seem. Those skills allow our dogs new ways to interact with us and to move around their environment. A very human-centric environment. Learning new skills builds confidence, reduces stress, frustration and anxiety. It makes them smarter, calmer and ready to take on more challenges. It enables them to seek attention, feedback or information in much less offensive ways than the barking, scratching, jumping and other annoying behaviours.

It goes beyond bids for attention and boredom though. Lucy provided another example this week. We’ve been working on crawling under my legs while I’m sitting down, under tables and chairs. Normally when my feet are up on the ottoman she’ll wait for me to lift them up so she can hop up on the couch beside me. She surprised me by confidently shoving her way under my legs to claim her spot. Another “trick” put to good use!